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CHRISTIAN MATCHMAKING · AGES 25+

Shared Faith.Meaningful Connection.

Personal Christian matchmaking for singles aged 25 and over, ready to pursue a relationship with purpose.

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Beyond the Swipe

The Betrothed approach

A little more care.
A deeper connection.

Getting to know you is where meaningful introductions begin.

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Private.

A considered approach to your personal information and introductions. Your story deserves care.

02

Personal.

People take time to understand your faith, values and relationship intentions. You are more than a profile.

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Purposeful.

Thoughtful introductions for people who are seeking a meaningful relationship, with shared faith at the heart.

Who it’s for

For the life you’re living.
And the connection you’re hoping for.

For Christian singles aged 25 and over who value shared faith and want to approach relationships with intention. Whatever your background or previous dating experiences, your story deserves to be heard.

You don’t need to have every answer. Discovery is a chance to understand the service and share what matters to you.

Get to know Betrothed
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A smiling couple embracing beside the ocean at sunset
An older couple looking warmly at one another outdoors
A young couple smiling together beside the ocean
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A family forming a heart with their hands
An adult couple enjoying an embrace on a tropical beach
A couple enjoying a piggyback ride among trees
A couple embracing in an urban garden
A couple touching foreheads on a sunny beach
A couple holding hands in an embrace beside the ocean
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How it works

First, we get to know you.

A considered journey, one personal step at a time. Discovery comes before membership.

  1. 01

    The Betrothed Discovery

    Begin by learning about the service and sharing your initial information. Discovery is the first stage before membership.

  2. 02

    Getting to know you

    Share your questionnaire responses and complete the required identity-verification and screening steps. The team will explain what is required.

  3. 03

    Matchmaking Assessment

    A deeper conversation explores your faith, values, lifestyle, preferences and relationship intentions, and whether Betrothed can offer an appropriate service.

  4. 04

    Membership consideration

    Following review, membership consideration and agreement come before activation. Your services, term and payment arrangement are confirmed in your membership documentation.

  5. 05

    Thoughtful introductions

    Once membership is confirmed and the required onboarding is complete, potential introductions are reviewed by people, with support appropriate to your membership.

Explore the journey

Completing Discovery does not guarantee membership acceptance.

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MeetPaulinePauline Alexander Founder, Betrothed

Meet Pauline

A personal service.
A purpose close to home.

Betrothed is led by Pauline Alexander, whose approach to matchmaking is grounded in real-life experience, emotional intelligence and a natural ability to connect people.

With a background in recruitment, Pauline brings an understanding of compatibility that considers personality, values and long-term intention. Her warm, approachable nature is central to the personal approach behind Betrothed.

More about Betrothed

Our memberships

Support that fits your journey.

Three levels of personal support. A shared commitment to thoughtful, faith-led introductions.

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Membership follows Discovery, assessment and acceptance.

Beyond the Swipe

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The conversation series

Let’s talk about
what matters.

Faith. Dating. Relationships. Intentional connection.

Beyond the Swipe is Betrothed’s conversation series, creating space to explore the questions that sit behind a meaningful relationship.

Discover the series

Beyond the Swipe

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Dining, conversation and appreciation at a Betrothed gathering. Guests pictured are event attendees; attendance is separate from matchmaking membership.

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Time around the table
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A room for conversation
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A moment of appreciation
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Guests sharing a conversation around the table
An event attendee speaking into a microphone

A little clarity

Good questions.
Honest answers.

Take your time. Understanding the service is part of the journey.

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Who is Betrothed for?

Betrothed is for Christian singles aged 25 and over who value shared faith and are seeking an intentional, meaningful relationship. People bring different backgrounds and life experiences; Discovery helps the team understand your individual circumstances.

What is Discovery?

The Betrothed Discovery is the initial stage before membership. It helps you understand the service and allows the team to gather initial information before a deeper Matchmaking Assessment.

What happens after Discovery?

The journey includes questionnaire responses, required identity-verification and screening steps, and a Matchmaking Assessment. The team then considers whether it can provide an appropriate service before membership is agreed and activated.

Does Discovery guarantee membership?

No. Completing Discovery does not guarantee acceptance into a Betrothed membership. Suitability is considered through the review and assessment process.

How are introductions considered?

Potential introductions are reviewed personally, taking account of shared faith, values, relationship intentions, preferences, suitability and availability. They are not generated automatically by an algorithm.

Can members browse other profiles?

No. Betrothed is a personal matchmaking service rather than a public member directory. The team considers potential introductions through its human-reviewed process.

What do memberships include?

Anchor, Rock and Shield offer different levels of preparation, match opportunities and personal support. All include onboarding, an ID check, consultation, profile creation, mentoring, dating guidance and post-date check-ins. Your applicable agreement confirms the full services and term.

Are relationship outcomes guaranteed?

No. Betrothed does not guarantee a match, date, relationship, engagement or marriage. Mutual attraction, compatibility and relationship outcomes cannot be promised.

Where can I read the cancellation or refund policy?

The existing Refund / Cancellation Policy is linked below and in the footer. Your applicable Membership Agreement and payment schedule also set out the terms relevant to your service.

Read the existing policy
How do I contact the team?

Email help@thebetrothed.co.uk for service questions, support or policy enquiries.

Email the team

Your first step

Your story matters.
Let’s begin there.

Discover a personal approach to Christian matchmaking.
Start with understanding the process, at your own pace.

Start Your Discovery

Discovery is the first stage. Membership acceptance and relationship outcomes are not guaranteed.

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